Methods of Maintaining Harmony, Staying within Guidelines for Mind and Body
Instead of giving into anger and thus identifying with the role that corresponds to that (that version of you) identify and isolate the real underlying cause which is often hidden by what we perceive initially.
For instance, an action or person that causes an anger response is actually reminding us or activating some insecurity we feel about ourselves or our past experience which we are not consciously integrating and resolving. Instead of resolving this issue, we can project the inner pain onto another who reflects this issue back to us and through this there is a false-sense of relief. We see this all the time with people who are so angry and discontent with their reality, yet they constantly project this emotion onto others around them. Instead of projecting, they can identify the problem, then, instead of becoming angry, they can assist others in becoming more self-aware.
This happens on a person to person basis, however the entire society is going through this. There is pent up anger and emotions and instead of realizing the source of this within there is a constant outward projection and searching for engagement in the physical world to resolve these inner disturbances.
Thus the way to resolving this is through the introduction of the concept that the answer to the problem is to resolve these issues, personally, individually within ourselves rather than seeking constant approval and appeasement from others or the ‘system’ as a whole. There is indeed an issue with the way the current system seems to encourage distortion and disharmony however if one views that system as a project of the people rather than the people as a projection of that system, then the people are in control. Only when the people view themselves as a projection of that system do they lose control and therefore become a slave to that system and the requirements and expectations.
When did that dynamic switch? One could say ‘a long time ago’, however one could also say that as soon as there are large enough numbers of people then automatically a group-think behavioral response system and flow develops like weather or atmospheric phenomena. This could be because the level of power that is wielded in groups is greater than the amount of discipline each individual can personally manage and therefore the group-think level of interaction always tends to overpower the individual at this point in history.
Thus, only when people in large groups can actually overcome that tendency to react like a herd will change be found. Why? This is because the herd responds, in this society, to the lowest common denominator. That is, the easiest and most highly reactive option or the option that entails the least forethought and self-awareness is the one that will become the primary meme that the group-mind identifies with and thus the motivation behind the ‘flow’ of the wave of change in the group. Of course, what are people most likely all unified in? Their fears, their habits, their anger, or their courage, their discipline and their compassion?
Thus, people are unified most easily through fear, anger, and addictive behavior and that is both how the control system is developed to manage the masses by the few who know this and this is how the masses are swept away by that group-think which is often highly destructive, the result of frightening misconceptions and miscommunication amongst the crowd.
When people can operate together as if they are first people and second a different nation or culture then these problems which plague the world will change and only when that is achieved. If the world is changed before that, then this opportunity is lost and their ability to know the self dwindles from their on out. This is why the current system is maintained.
One can’t “end” all suffering, then ALL behaviors that “someone” or “everyone” doesn’t like would stop, literally that would be the end of all change. And one can’t “force” people to change and wake up, that would either destroy the learning process or induce too much shock and abuse of another’s free-will and simply would not be conducive to achieving that internal power.
Thus, the system is maintained, while taking consideration of all the pains, fears, and discretions and this will continue until there are either enough to move forward and generate the new society or those of the old society can no longer maintain themselves within the growing sea of chaos. Thus we get the creation of the new from the cycle of destruction and disharmony and everyone must choose for themselves where they want to be.
Everything here is a test, even if the test aspect is just as important as the ‘real-life’ aspect. This is simply a ‘real-life test’.
On emotional vampirism and reactivity to disharmony and indifference or non-empathic interactions:
Know that after expressing yourself fully that you did what is correct. You told the truth, you expressed yourself in honesty and in giving compassion in the best and most balanced way (not giving into lies and deception). Feel strong knowing that you stand up to deception and manipulation, and draw the line before the interactions of expressing yourself where you feel depleted or drained of emotional energy afterwards. Those are the deceptive interactions that are actually mind-games to feed on your energy like a parasite which results in being weaker even if one resisted the mental-emotional harassment of others.Know the truth, stand firmly before that line, speak your peace, and let time take care of the rest.Know that after expressing yourself fully that you did what is correct. You told the truth, you expressed yourself in honesty and in giving compassion in the best and most balanced way (not giving into lies and deception). Feel strong knowing that you stand up to deception and manipulation, and draw the line before the interactions of expressing yourself where you feel depleted or drained of emotional energy afterwards. Those are the deceptive interactions that are actually mind-games to feed on your energy like a parasite which results in being weaker even if one resisted the mental-emotional harassment of others.Know the truth, stand firmly before that line, speak your peace, and let time take care of the rest.
The idea is, even if in the moment you feel slighted or jaded by withholding an overly emotional reaction, later in knowing that you simply reflected the truth in the face of deception and lack that you have not lost but gained energy and recalibrated yourself and your universe appropriately towards the alignment of your will instead of those around you. That desire to react in the moment? That’s the vampiric parasite attempting to poison the auric field with false pleasure like a mosquito putting sedative so that the host doesn’t realize it’s attempting to feed.